A tantra massage is a massage done with love and presence. The massage will target your physical and energetic bodies, opening up the heart space and removing blocks to the circulation of your potent energy. It is rare that we get the opportunity to receive healing, loving touch without doing anything in return - the tantra massage session is intended to deepen this quality of receptivity, and cultivate presence and love in the recipient.
This full-body massage is done with as little clothing as is comfortable (typically nude), with an option for 2-way touch if supportive to your intention. We always begin with grounding into presence beforehand, and clearly setting our intention for the magic that will happen. In tantra, everything is natural, and therefore welcomed and integrated into our session. This means that most sessions deal with sexual and sensual energies, as these are some of the most powerful human energies. The sessions include genital touch, if agreed upon before-hand. The goal is only to deepen pleasure and presence, not forcing orgasm. Orgasms are welcome if they happen, but recipients with penises are particularly reminded that ejaculation is not the goal; in fact, the lingam (penis) is normally not erect for the entire time, since the massage focuses more on sensual energy than sexual. Experiencing pleasure with no goal can be incredibly healing.
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60 min - $200 | 90 min - $270 | 120 min - $300
90 min recommended for the first session, as it gives us more time for grounding + breathwork
Tantra Massage
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All of our bodies store some armour: emotion is energy in motion, and when we are unable to fully feel and let an emotion move through us, the unprocessed energy gets stuck in the body’s fascia and energy field. Over time, these blocks can suppress our authenticity, causing physical, emotional, and spiritual pain, and blocking us off from love and connection.
Sometimes, these blocks follow a certain pattern, showing up, for example, as chronic neck or back pain. It may show up as an energetic armour on the heart that eventually reflects as a breast cancer Tumour. Sometimes it’s anxiety-based nausea, or Sexual Trauma living in the yoni (vulva) and causing painful sex, or else in the lingam (penis) and causing erectile dysfunction.
Or else it’s more Emotional - a nagging pattern of shame, the inability to self-love, attachments that may stem from childhood.
In my experience, dearmouring has been the #1 fix for my sufferings - from chronic body pain to painful mental health patterns. This is because it’s embodied healing; whereas the brain is simply a biocomputer whose neurons fire to recognize any patterns, whether true or not, the body only knows one way: your authentic truth. Embodied healing is true healing.
After we deepen into meditative presence and ground through the breath, I will apply conscious touch and coach you to use your breath, movement, and sound, in an self-empowered process to remove energetic armours on the body. After a session, recipients typically feel “cracked open” and raw - with a heart open to giving and receiving more love than ever.
2 hours - $300 | 2.5 hours - $370 | 3 hours - $420
2 hours is the minimum length for dearmouring, because of how deep we will go,
and the preparation and aftercare involved. For female bodies, 3 hours is recommended.
Dearmouring Massage
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Enter a deep shamanic container, where we speak less from the mind and instead listen to our hearts. The aim of these sessions is to get to the root of why you’re here, and take steps to tackle it using the mind-body approach.
We will begin with strong intention setting, and a radically courageous and authentic talk of what’s going on in your sex life and/or general life. I practise active listening, ask strategic questions, and invite you to tune into how your body feels at the mention of different aspects of your life. This is how we incorporate the Tantra. Depending on the session goals and discoveries, we will practise some combination of traditional tantric rituals, energy work, conscious touch, and authentic relating. With couples, sex magic is often taught to manifest partnership goals.
These sessions do not have to relate solely to sexuality - maybe you lack pleasure and sensation in everyday life, or have troubled body image, or maybe you just have the gnawing feeling that you are not Living to the Max. Through our work, you will learn the Tantric way of life, decreasing pressure for intimacy quantity, and instead focusing on the quality - adding pleasure and bliss not only into your intimate life, but into your regular life as well.
For in-person sessions, there is an opportunity for two-way touch, as it serves your goals. This may look like my teaching a specific massage technique to a husband to use on his wife. Or in a 1:1 session, this may look like performing a conscious touch ritual with each other, switching between the giver/receiver roles. The objective is to experience tantric embodied intimacy first-hand.
1:1 Sessions:
In-Person: 90 min - $250 | 120 min - $300
Online: 60 min - $150 | 90 min - $200
Couples' Sessions:
In-Person: 90 min - $330 | 120 min - $400
Online: 60 min - $200 | 90 min - $270
Tantric Intimacy & Embodiment Coaching
for Couples & Singles
Toronto in-person sessions are always recommended, as we can go deeper.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I explore tantra if I’m single right now?
Absolutely - in tantra it is actually key to come home to the self first - even if you’re currently in partnership. The majority of my clients are single, and working on building trust, intimacy, and depth in themselves first.
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How sexual will the session get?
Especially if your goals are specifically sexual, we will deal with sexual energy and sexual touch. This may include orgasm from one or both of us. It may involve two-way touch, especially if we’re practising tantra massage or conscious touch. Sexual sovereignty, i.e., engaging in your sexuality consciously rather than compulsively, is the key. This is tricky, especially because the external world and the media program us to be the exact opposite of sovereign, to treat our sexuality as anything but sacred. Which is why this is one of the primary themes that I coach individuals (particularly men) in. Although sessions can get quite sexual, there is never any penetration or oral.
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Can I touch you too (2-way touch)?
Yes, this is possible and even encouraged, in support of your emotional body during session. This is especially relevant during de-armouring massage: eye-contact and hand holding from your practitioner (me) can really help your sense of safety and grounding. If at any point I feel the touch is becoming too stimulating or painful for me, or it moves out of alignment of your journey, I will gently guide you to remove your touch.
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How does this differ from sex work?
Tricky question.. some people consider any nude massage to be sex work. Our intention in working together is always guided by yours and my Highest Selves, in service of your deepest goals. If this includes working with sexual energy (it often does), then we do. But it is done with reverence and deep awareness - the goal of any session is never solely “tension release”, and I will never be “aiming to please you” - this is a sacred transmission done intuitively to serve your highest good. This never includes penetration or oral; only conscious touch.
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Does tantra massage have to be nude? What if I don’t want genital touch?
No, you only undress to your level of comfort - the massage can be done fully clothed if desired. We go over touch boundaries to start, and decide what’s best for you based on your goals. Often, even if the intention is to explore genital touch/dearmouring, the body may not be ready, and so we don’t force this touch.
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How do I prepare for my session?
I will send you a confirmation email with all the info you need to know before-hand; I will also send you integration suggestions after. Hydration and whole food nutrition before and after session is really important. Presence is key to get the deepest possible transmission from the session, so it’s best to limit distractions (phones, screens, shallow conversations) as much as possible in the hours leading up to our session. We always begin session with breathwork and grounding.
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Not sure what to choose?
Schedule a call, and we can discuss what service might serve you best depending on your current goals and desires.
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